In Greenwich, a remarkable woman is defying the challenges posed by alopecia, embracing her unique journey with resilience and inspiring others along the way. Jess Mullen, 27, faced the onset of alopecia at the tender age of 16, losing not only her hair but also her eyebrows and eyelashes.
Originally diagnosed with alopecia areata, Jess’s condition progressed to alopecia universalis, leaving her without the prospect of regrowth. Undeterred by this significant change in her appearance, Jess has become an advocate for self-love and acceptance, particularly within the online community where she candidly shares her story.
Preparing for her work in childcare, Jess, a childcare practitioner from Greenwich, meticulously styles her hair and eyebrows the night before. Despite her remarkable journey towards self-assurance, she still finds solace in wearing wigs, especially around the children she cares for, fearing their potential unease.
Every morning, Jess dedicates half an hour to don her wig and apply eyebrow transfers, considering it a routine that has become second nature to her. Her meticulous approach reflects not just her commitment to maintaining a desired appearance but also her unwavering determination to face the world with confidence.
Reflecting on the onset of her condition, Jess recalled the initial dismissal by doctors who attributed her hair loss to a tight bun post-GCSEs in 2013. However, a month later, she experienced a sudden and complete loss of hair, eyebrows, and eyelashes, leading to her diagnosis of alopecia.
Recounting the traumatic experience, Jess expressed, “I was the kind of girl that loved my hair. It was traumatic to lose it. There was a two-year period where I didn’t go out. Then I built up the courage to try a wig.”
Embracing her journey of self-discovery, Jess gradually gained the confidence to venture out without a wig. A turning point in her journey occurred in 2018 when she initiated an Instagram page to connect with others sharing similar experiences. This online community became a source of comfort and empowerment, allowing her to appreciate her true self.
Despite her newfound confidence, Jess admits to still having days when she prefers to wear a wig, especially for work. However, her interactions with the children have often surprised her positively, dispelling her initial concern that they might be frightened.
Jess, who boasts an extensive wardrobe filled with 50 to 80 wigs, takes pride in her ability to change her hair color as she pleases. Her story serves as an inspiration for those grappling with alopecia or any visible difference. Jess encourages others by stating, “You might feel like an alien, but you don’t have to feel like you’re on your own. If you have a visual difference, it’s OK to feel the way you do – sad or anxious. I am who I am – you can be like that too.” Jess Mullen’s journey stands as a testament to the power of self-acceptance and resilience in the face of adversity.
